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Quotes from Ab: VI September 15, 2010

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Tom Allen has asked in a couple of comments that he’d like to hear more from Ab—like to know more, “What is Ab getting out of this?” So I asked him.

He thought about for a minute and then said, “Variety.” He added, “We’ve played a lot of sex games over the years. We need to find a way to keep it interesting and fun. I see that chastity is another form of variety in the world of sex.”

He thought a minute more and then said, “I think it is also about spicing it up a bit. It’s fun, a little kinky—but not too far out there. It feels a little illicit but it really isn’t.”

I asked about a few of the things I had been thinking about. Control? Well, he’s not so sure about that right now. But I think there may be other things going on that we need to work on in that department. Better quality of erections? He’s not so sure that will help that since the few times he has had little vacations his hard-ons haven’t been so great. I commented that I thought that was on purpose—he was really working on denial even though I gave him a chance to orgasm. He just shrugged at that one.

He pointed out that I tend to get ideas in my head—get all wound up and excited and even a little obsessed—and then a year (or two, or three) I am off onto something else. He hinted at (but didn’t say) that he expects a similar pattern with chastity. I am in that newbie phase and a year from now it will be something different. Maybe he’s right. I can’t predict the future. I feel like I am in this for the long haul but maybe a year is the long haul.

We’ll see.

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1. Tom Allen - September 15, 2010

He pointed out that I tend to get ideas in my head—get all wound up and excited and even a little obsessed—and then a year (or two, or three) I am off onto something else.

:laughs:

This is totally me! It also explains why you’re so happy to find a few forums on which you can discuss this.

2. devotedlvr - September 15, 2010

Exactly!

3. J Random reader - December 17, 2010

You have played over the years. How well did they meet your needs? How is a chastity device different?

Control! I don’t want control! I want other things. And then the misses calls me “controlling”! Plblt!

Inquiring minds want to know. What “other things” are going on there?


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